Nothing attracts a man more than a woman who is busy. A busy woman is characterized with features as below:
•In college and pursuing a real career;
•Advancing in a career;
•Involved with a hobby, or many hobbies;
•Really good at something after years of training;
•Someone with little time in her day, due to her activities.
A busy women is not a woman who is busy shopping or busy doing cocaine with all her friends, nor a woman who can log in Facebook everyday and play video games all night. Instead, a busy woman has hobbies and passions, making her an interesting person. She can teach her interests to others, or mesh with others with the same interest. This will assist a woman to build confidence and fill her jar with experiences she can share with the world.
A busy woman's time is very valueable. She won't waste any of her time on some useless couch potato when she can go surfing with her friends. The men busy women choose are always men from the top of the apple tree and not rotting on the ground. A busy woman has boundaries and she sets them. A real busy woman gives out sex on a selective basis and only to high value men. Bar scene is only a joke to the busy high value women.
Busy women are always seen as a challenge to men. They want what they can't have and these women are their top of the tree fruit. Busy women are not needy or in any rush to have kids. Men knows that high value women will never be needy or clingy and they love this feature of those high value women.
Men are just like cats or even worse.If you pursue a man, he naturally runs without any challenge or mystery. However, if you are a busy woman, things will change. He always thing: "She is so busy and has no time for me at all, so I have to try harder, as I really want her!"
Our traditional society teaches us to get a man and be happy. Here one thing has been missed, you really need to get a life, then get a man and be happy! The "get a life" part is the confidence part and it really matters as it is what lures the men. If every women did this part well, her issues would be solved. However, our society is always rushing people to step forward in a big rush. We are always told to start a family much too early.
You really need to be a busy and confident woman. Stop making guys your key source of happiness and start getting busy! Get a life first, then get a man and then be happy.
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