Now, let us discuss the various scientific theories that most guys love to talk about when it comes to getting a girlfriend. If you love reading dating books and pick-up manuals which were written by countless of experts of the game, you will always find some crazy scientific theories applied to dating. Some of their theories are actually true, yet most of them are based on lies. Yes, they often brag about a scientific theory which has no credible evidence and we often fall for their lies every single time.
This chapter will provide you with the right approaches so that you will not fail when you start dating. Of course, this chapter will also provide you with some information regarding the theories given by other experts along with the reasons as to why some of them are completely useless.
One of the most attractive qualities a potential date can have is palpable confidence.
Confidence is one of the most attractive qualities in another person. But dating a confident girl isn't without its challenges. She's not going to be impressed by the usual flirting and games that you may be used to, so you may need to work a little harder. Most importantly, though, you need to have plenty of your own confidence.
Girls will be interested in you if you seem to have a lot going on: you're involved in activities, you have friends, you speak your opinion, and you have long-term goals. Confidence can stem from a lot of places. You don't have to be a basketball star to attract a girl,just get involved in something that shows you at your best. What activity allows you to shine? There's a big difference between confidence and arrogance. Confident people are admired by others for their talent, but also their grace and humility. If you're confident in yourself, you won't find the need to brag about it.
Don't pretend to be someone you aren't - girls will be able to see right through it. There's nothing wrong with reading up on a band you know a girl likes so you can have a conversation about it later, but don't pretend you know how to play the guitar unless you're prepared to play her a song at a moment's notice. Be real, and you won't have to lie.
The pea-cocking theory is completely false. The reason for this is that most men wear expensive clothing when they go to the bar or disco. Hence, even if you wear your most expensive clothing, there will always be someone else who will wear more expensive and more brightly colored garments.
Now, let us debunk some of the scientific theories that you always hear online. One of which is seduction through the use of magic words. There are a number of websites that offer you with premium advice based on NLP or persuading lines which have a subconscious effect on your target. In reality, hypnotizing your target in order to do things that you want is utterly stupid. Even if you try to share some magical words to your date, you will never get her heart. The reason for this is that hypnosis is not real. It is a cheap parlor trick designed to get money from people.
The next thing that you will often hear on-line is those magic pills and sprays that will improve your game. Those sprays that you see online are often based on pheromones, signaling chemicals which increase the libido of women who smell it. In reality, those pheromones that you buy online are often made from a mixture or perfume and water. Some even came from the testicles of baboons and lions. As for the magic pills, they are either sugar pills or dangerously mixed narcotics which are illegal in various countries.
Finally, there is the negation theory. This theory dictates that the more you insult or you provide women with negative suggestions, the more chances of lowering her defenses and finally accepting you into her life. Some examples of the negative suggestions that you tell women are how normal they look, how plain their clothing is, how little they are, the size of their body or how they talk too much. This theory is not only insulting but it can literally ruin your chances.
So, why is the negation theory a fallacy? The reason is that most women are emotional. They tend to feel bad and they will feel insulted easily once you give some negative feed-backs. Instead of getting their attention, they might spill their drink all over your face. They might even call the bouncers inside the club and have you thrown out. That is why it is never a good idea to use the negation theory in order to pick-up women.
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