If you assume that convincing her to go on that first date is the most difficult part of trying to seduce her; it’s time to rethink. Many guys assume that once they get a woman to date them once, they have already put in all the necessary effort and work. They might go home from the date feeling as though they nailed it all and it went great, only to realize that she never calls for a second date or even ignores him. The fact is that some women will go on one date with a guy just because she is curious, not necessarily already into you. The odds of her wanting to take things further depends completely on the way she feels about you during that time, and this explains why first dates don’t matter so much. So what should you do in order to make her want to see you again for a second date?
Make sure you don’t have a Bad First one:
For women, and many people in general, first impressions are highly important. They might not recall precisely what you did or said on the date, but they will definitely be able to recall the overall feeling you gave her on the date. If she is uninterested, turned off, or bored by you on that date, there’s little to no chance that she will give you a second chance with another. Now, the topic of bad habits to do on a first date could fill up an entire book on its own, but there are general rules to avoid when going out with someone for the first time.
Avoid the Following for the First Date:
1.Tired and boring ideas like going out for a nice dinner.
2.Not taking care of your personal grooming or hygiene.
3.Interrogating or interviewing her.
4.Only talking about yourself and not asking questions.
5.Sharing way too much information.
6.Not handling your alcohol well.
7.Being desperate, creepy, or needy.
Showing your Interest in a Positive Way:
The truth is that even if you are more interesting than all of the other guys in the room, you will not hold her interest unless you show that you are truly interested in her. Women will see the process of seduction as pointless without this crucial ingredient. The woman might be intrigued by a guy who has met celebrities or climbed a volcano in Hawaii, but if you don’t take some time to ask her questions and appreciate her, you're going to lose her interest very quickly.
If you want to mention something about sex, how to show Sexual Interest Appropriately?
One mistake made by countless men is waiting to give off sexual vibes or signals until she gives some kind of okay signal to him. You may believe that this is the respectful approach to take, but she will likely find it boring. Women are not interested in guys who are hesitant and uncertain, but the ones who are forthright about what they want. That being said, staying balanced is very important. You should ideally seem at ease with yourself and your own sexually, without appearing obsessive or desperate for sex. Show that you are comfortable with a light touch on her arm or a genuine compliment, but don’t rave about her being the sexiest person you’re ever laid eyes on.
Escalating the Sexual Vibe and Attraction:
The attraction of women can be compared to coals in the fire. These are be burning hot at one instant, and turn cold just as quickly. What you need to do is build up this attraction by escalating. The women you’re out with might think that you’re attractive, charming, and funny. She may love being out with you, but she will eventually begin to ask herself mentally where this is headed. This means the ball is in your court, and if you don’t allow he interaction to keep moving in he right direction, she might get disinterested or worse yet, bored with you and ready to end the night.
One mistake some guys make is getting overly comfortable where they are. They might think that since the woman appears to be interested in them and likes being there, they should simply continue on with what they've been doing instead of taking the risk of ruining things. However, if you try to stay in one location for too long instead of keeping it moving, you will end up sabotaging the interaction. If you find yourself in a situation with a woman touching you playfully on the arm and laughing at the jokes you’re making, make sure you escalate by touching her back, for example. As soon as she seems to respond to this move, it's time to kiss her.
Mystery is an important component of seduction and dating. If she thinks that she’s already learned everything about you after seeing you one time, she probably won’t be that excited about the prospect of another date. When you guys are out on your first one, allow her to see enough of your cards to feel curious about you, but don’t tell her your en-tire life story just yet. Let her wonder some things and this will contribute to her desire to see you again on a second date.
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