Great job. You got a reply. Because she does not know you, girls online are not always so nice they might act mean or disinterested, and it's up to you to show her that you are the real deal. When you get a shit test be happy she's interested in you, she put an effort to reply so we can at least say she is moderately interested and intrigued View and treat shit test as a compliment. You have a bigger purpose to live than to be worrying about shit test girls throw at you. Demonstrate this through humor and showing you don’t care.
It's very easy to deal with the shit test by either ignoring it altogether by changing the topic or by agreeing or disagree with her and make fun of yourself which tells her you don't take yourself too seriously.
Examples：
Her: It says in your profile your only 5'7 I usually date men over six foot.
You: Oh yeah I'm a fucking dwarf even in my heels ：)
Or
Her: How many girls have you slept with
You: what today? Not many ：)
Another great way to pass the shit test is to misinterpret completely with what she's said.
Her:I don't have sex with guys whom I meet online.
You： wow I’m flattered but can we keep off the sex topic until we get to know each other better, and we've had a drink.
Your main aim from the messages is to build comfort with her. She should like you and trust you before she goes out on a date with you. Are you getting positive response i.e. “you are so cute” or “I saw you in my dream” etc. it is an excellent time to Segway to ask for her number. Show your intent that you are not just an online chat buddy. If you were not to pull the trigger at the right time slowly but surely, you are falling into a friend zone. There is no magic number to after how many messages you should ask for a number because girls are humans, and they have different personality and upbringings some take long some take short time. You get a feel to it with more practice but as a general guideline go for a number close after three to text messages. As Jeff Bezos founder of Amazon says it’s okay to freak the rules as long as you are not breaking the law of physics i.e. jumping from a 50 story building and hoping you won’t break any bones.
The simple rule is to keep doing what's working. If you are consistently getting results from doing things a certain way, keep doing it. It might sound like a very basic advice, but so many guys don't do it. It's okay to experiment with different ideas but what counts is the result and keep doing what’s working.
There is a famous analogy in the pickup community of being a buyer a seller which works because its tried and tested method. Way to do this is always coming from a frame that she is selling to you, and you are deciding if you like her or not. It's easier said that done if you are not seeing other girls atm or don't have other fuck buddies etc. we have all been there. Nevertheless to stand out from the crowd, you need to come from this frame of being a buyer, not a seller.
Exercise
1. Swap flake numbers with your wing man and text girls to try to get them out on a date with you. You don't have to go physically on a date with them if you don't want to (if you don't find her attractive) but have her confirm that she is coming on a 67% date with you and then cancel it later. Don't be a dick make her wait for you and you never show up.
2.If you don't have a wingman, then get one. In the meantime try to get the girls who are flaking you to respond to your text. Remember don't be persistent in a wrong way if she says “fuck off” or I don't want you to call my number” let her go don't waste your time and their time. Respect one another. We are living in an earth of more than 7 billion people, and half of them are women. Lots of abundance!
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