Your Partner's lips
When it comes to French Kissing, the tongues may be the stars of the show, but they're not the entire show. After finally getting to the stage where your tongues are touching, it may seem like a step backwards to focus your attention on your partner's lips again, but it's not. Mixing things up only adds to the excitement. Like the tongue, the lips are highly sensitive and you waste an opportunity if you ignore your partner for long periods of time. That's especially true now because, with your tongue and open mouth in the game, you live new ways to excite those highly charged nerve ending.
Using Your Tongue
•Tick Kisses as they’re sometimes called are simple but effective. Run your tongue across your partner's upper or lower lip, or, for a more subtle move, trace around the outer edge of your partner's lips with the tip of your tongue. Because these moves provide a break from tongue-on-tongue contact, they're ideal for engaging in a bit of romantic teasing. After some hot and heavy kissing, switching momentarily to our partner's lips, and using a light, barely-there touch, creates the sort of playful holding back that lovers use to build a sense of anticipation.
• Another fun sexy move takes advantage of the fact that wet skin is more sensitive to changes in temperature. After licking your partner's lips until they're moist, blow soft breath over the area for a warm tingling sensation.
•If you're in a very flirtatious mood, you can also turn your tongue play into a game： Using the tip of your tongue, spell out a romantic message on your partner's lips, and ask him or her to unravel this very personal love note.
Using Your Lips
• Sucking on your partner's lip is another go-to, feel-good move that can always be counted on to please. Of course, you used your lips during the Basic Romantic Kiss, and you may have even sucked gently on your partner's lips, but with the earthier, more carnal tone set by the French Kiss, this move takes on a new sexiness and it shouldn't be left out of your repertoire now. Some people like to alternate between their partner's upper and lower lip but the plumpish, yielding quality of the lower lip makes it the easy favorite for many and you may find that you spend a bit more time there. To end this kiss with a nice sensual moment, catch your partner's lower lip between your lips, and, when you separate from them, apply just enough pressure to tug on their lip as it slips free.
Using Your Teeth
“Nip Kisses"aren’t for everyone, but some people love them. These are kisses that use the teeth on a partner's lips. The contrast between the sharp, solid surface of the teeth against the soft, sensitive flesh of the lips can be quite erotic. Some people call these 'bite Kisses' but that is misleading, because you should never actually bite your partner’s lip. Instead, the lip is held between the the teeth using very light pressure, and either a mock nip, where the lip is gently tugged and released, or a brief nibbling action is used. This kiss requires that you be in control of what you’re doing so that you don’t accidentally chomp down on your partner's lip and cause discomfort. If you want to avoid that possibility altogether, you can also use your upper and lower teeth separately to softly graze your partner’s lips without grabbing on.
(Again, with the right person at the right moment Nip Kisses can be a sexy move, but keep in mind that some people don’t like the feel of teeth on their lips, and even when someone does enjoy this kiss they don't necessarily want it all the time. Until you're sure of how your partner feels, start out slowly, and if they express any displeasure, move on to a different kiss.)
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