You may have known a guy or two probably since high-school who seem to have a natural ability to attract women. And as many other guys out there you might have thought at one time; “Dam... this guy must have some kind of special trick!” or “This dude is lucky as fuck!”
I have actually met a couple of guys like this, and I am still good friends with one them since my childhood. On contrast to the other ones, my buddy didn't get fat and doesn't have other bad habits.
But despite everything, all of them still do extremely well with women. At least when it comes to attracting them. In terms of maintaining relationships, I wouldn't say the same thing.
However is their success with women, really that enigmatic, something that only a few men on earth can have? Not really, let me explain.
In my early teens, I really didn't care about dating- As most young boys I mostly wanted to play soccer and do other fun activities. I yet had a decent amount of success with girls. I guess from spending so much time around my buddies who did really with them. I eventually learned a thing or two from my buddies without even realizing.
I quite often had girls from my class going up to me and asking to be my girlfriends. Old... school memories, that doesn't happen any longer!
Less than a year ago after I broke up with my ex-girlfriend, I spent a long time reflecting about my past. I anailyzed everything I had done successfully with women up to that point. But I also came to interesting conclusions about my former friends and the one that still remains.
I soon understood it had nothing to do with them being lucky, or having some kind of special tricks or whatsoever.
The fact is while I and the majority of other young boys in high-school spent their time playing sports or doing other activities. And commonly just the mere thought of kissing a girl seemed gross. In other words, we past few time around girls and honestly, we really didn't care.
On the other hand, my buddies they were the minority. In a school of thousands of students, they were about three or four. And guess what they spent their time doing?
They were constantly surrounding themselves and hooking up with different girls. Actually, my last remaining friend from back then, when he was thirteen one day he turned to me and said, “I am going to become a playboy!”
I guess it is easy to conclude that when my buddies eached their adulthood they already had far more exerience with women compared to most other men.
While they already had slept at least with twenty women and spent countless hours interacting with them. The vast majority of the other guys were still trying to figure out what to say to women and how to get their first dates.
And the difference here is huge! For this reason, my buddies naturally developed high-levels of confidence around women. Actually, most of them are pretty insecure in all other areas of their life.
Furthermore, possibly through trial and error they also learned how to maximize all other traits that women find irresistibly attractive on them. This includes: social skills, being sexually comfortable, dressing sexier and so on.
Along the years they basically added and then practiced several attractive habits (at least for women) and molded their personality until they became extremely proficient with women. Or you could say, they became sexy motherfuckers.
The funny part is if you ever asked one of them, “-Hey, what do you do to attract so many women?” they will most likely look at you with a clueless face and just say,
“-I don't know. It just happens!”
The reason is they discovered nearly everything that I mentioned without their awareness. Anyway, the process of becoming good with women, doesn't it sound familiar? I bet it does! it's nearly the same as becoming good at anything in life, such as:
If you wanted to become a professional boxer what would you do?
You would certainly subscribe to a boxing gym and train probably 5 or more hours per day 5 to 6 times a week.
It would then take several years and many combats, knockouts, bruised ribs, broken fingers and wrists and whatnot. Until you perfected your technique, fitness levels, and became a highly proficient boxer.
Definitely not an easy thing! However that is the true process of mastering any thing worthwhile in life. Fortunately, becoming better with women won't take you as long. Probably only a few months if you follow exactly the advice in this book.
Anyway the difference is…
Instead of going to a boxing gym, you start frequenting more places where you can meet women. Instead of training different punching combinations, you practice your social skills, getting more comfortable around them, learning how to be more sexual with women etc.
It won't be easy at first! You will definitely fail by going up to a girl and getting rejected. Just as a boxer gets his first knockouts. You will then need to face several fears, anxieties and insecurities you may have related to yourself and women.
As time passes and you keep practicing day by day, you will start noticing huge improvements. You might no longer feel as stressful as before talking to women, then you might ask one girl out, then two and things start looking easier and easier. Then you will dress better, look better, feel better... and sooner or later without even noticing, you develop the right attitude and confidence around women.
Quite similar to what my buddies did a long time ago.
I am here to guide you in this exact direction. In a way that you can more quickly accomplish the results you want with women.
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