The first date went great, eh? But that doesn't mean the work is done - not until you begin dating. One wrong move and things can go haywire, anytime. The second date is as crucial as the first one, maybe even more. While the first date may have been great, you must know that getting through the second one without any goof-ups is an even more important step towards impressing her. You may have already heard a lot about the dos and don't of a first date.
One simple and effective method for getting her to say yes to another date with you is to plan it while you’re still out on the first one. The key here is not to act too predictable when it comes to this topic. This can be done by giving her small hints regarding some place you are curious about and want to go to. When a woman is interested in seeing you again, this is her cue to begin asking you about the place. If she does that,
It’s your turn to suggest going to the Mace together. Then you can drop he subject, building some anticipation around the topic. This is a positive thing to do, but a mind game. Just as your first date is ending, let her know that you want to bring her to the location you guys discussed and will give her a call soon.
Take Her To A New Place: If you've already been to a restaurant with her the last time, try out something new. The second date should never feel like déjà vu. Keep the setting contrastingly different, so she can see a totally different side of you. If the weather is pleasant, take her out in the open. If you take her for a film, make sure it is a genre she watches. Never force your choice upon her.
Have A Part Two Already Planned: Surprise her with a second part of the date. Once you've watched the latest romcom at the theater, take her someplace else where you can spend a lot more time just talking. It could be your favorite café or her favorite place in the city that she may have mentioned in passing in the last date. Catch her by surprise and watch her get butterflies in the stomach. There is nothing like a pleasant surprise on a second date.
Get Her A Gift: Is it a second date mandate? No. Is it necessary? No. Will she like it? Hell, yes! Buy something she'd like. It could be anything - from a chocolate to a perfume. It's the gesture that counts. In fact, the more personal the gift is, the more she will want you. Build up a curiosity. Let her guess what it is. Unwrap it only at the end of the date.
Talk About Her: You must know when to stop talking about yourself. In fact, your second date should be focused on her. Make her feel important. Show interest in her. Ask her how her day went, and what are the latest happenings in her life. When she speaks, listen patiently.
Refrain from Texting in between the First and Second Oates:
This can be hard to resist when you really, really like someone, but don’t blow it. It doesn’t always matter so much if a woman had a great time on your original date together, because she might end up changing her mind for whatever reason. This means that sending texts in between the first and second date can sabotage things, and is almost never a good idea. Calling is a far more personal gesture, builds up a healthy level of rapport between the two of you, and also shows that you’re confident. Everyone texts each other these days, so show that you aren't afraid to be different by calling.
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