Have you every thought that there are skills in picking her up before you go out with her? Some of these may seem obvious, but others are not as obvious. While certain rules here are classics that everyone knows about, others are more ambiguous. The rules here apply to every first date, no matter who is involved with it, so make sure you follow them in order to create the best and most favorable experience possible and increase your chances for a second date.
Being on Time: Make sure that you are on time to pick her up. When a guy shows up late to the date, it shows that he doesn’t respect her enough to be on time, and might even make her feel anxious and uncertain about the evening ahead. If, for some reason, something comes up that will make you a bit late, be respectful and give her a call to tell her about it. In addition to making sure you aren’t late, try not to be too early either. Most women will use every single minute up until the date to finish getting ready and making sure they look good.
If you show up far too early, she’s probably still getting dressed and doing her makeup, and this won’t be appreciated. That’s not to say that she will be angry, but she will be uncomfortable at best. She will likely also feel embarrassed that you are seeing her without her final outfit and makeup on. Plus, she will feel rushed to finish preparing with you waiting in her living room. Take my advice and don’t allow this to happen, since it can ruin the vibe of the night as a whole.
Walk up to her Door: Maybe in the movies the cool guys pull up to their date’s house and honk the horn to grab her attention and alert her to their presence, but this isn’t a movie. Walk up to her door instead of honking or sending a text message.
Compliment her Right Away: You should always give her a compliment right when you see her. The majority of girls put plenty of effort and time into their appearance before their first dates, so you should show that you both notice and appreciate this. Don’t be a fool who hesitates to say it and then ends up never giving the compliment. Let it be the first comment you make when you see her. You can then make a few old fashioned but usually appreciated moves and open the door for her on the way out, and your car door for her as well.
Do you know what to do when you are on the way with her to the first date? Rather than listening to music on the way to the date, talk instead. The point of a date is to get to know the other person you’re with, and talking is the only method for this. Radios or CD players in the car are just a way to avoid hesitation or awkward silences. Before you even get her into your car, turn off the radio so that you have to speak with each other and ease the tension. If you do have to have some music on in your car, let it be soft and subtle in the background. If you aren’t driving her and instead take a cab, make sure you are opening the door for her and pay for the fare when you get to your destination.
In fact, there will be lots of fun on your first date with her. Pay attention to the details and this will make her have more interest in you.
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