First impressions do matter and if you want to make a good first impression in your first date with someone, here are sincere and earnest 10 tips to follow.
1.Do not take it too seriously. By this, I mean, do not go in with apre-conceived notion. Do not assume you are going to meet ‘the one’, because you may be in for a disappointment. It is better to have no expectations and be pleasantly surprised.
2.Wear something nice, and comfortable. If you do not do heels, do not wear them. If you are more of a jeans person, then don’t wear a suit. Obviously, think about where you are going and dress accordingly.
3.Think beforehand about what to talk about. Both of you may be just as nervous as each other may, so it is important to come with some conversation starters to avoid awkward silences. Ask questions that would make the other person think a bit- what do they like to do in their spare time and why? What are they passionate about? If they like to read, what rather books? If they love travelling, what is the most exciting place they have been to and why?
4.Do not eat too much, I love my food just as much as the next person, but a first date is not the time to show off your eating skills. You also do not want any awkward stomach issues.
5.Be prepared (to pay for the bill). Some people think the person should pay the bill, and some think it should be split, especially when you are on a first date and just getting to know each other. I think despite your preferences, you should never go on a date with someone and expect them to foot the whole bill. Come prepared to pay at least your share, and then some. It saves any awkward conversations at the end of the date.
6.Be yourself. There is the pressure to impress when on a first date, but remember that you want the other person to get to know the real you, not someone else. If they do not like what they see, then at least you know you are not starting a relationship based on pretenses.
7.Do not do anything you are not comfortable with. This may seem obvious but it is easy to be carried away if the date is going really well, and there is an attraction. However, it is also important to know when to draw the line and not do something you may regret later.
8.Be polite,even if you do not feel attracted to the person. Do not treat someone in a way you would not want to be treated.
9.Keep an open mind. Unless you absolutely cannot stand to be around someone, do not write him or her off straightaway. People are usually nervous on the first date, and may come across different to what they are usually like, so it is a good idea to meet them again before you make up your mind about them.
10.Pray. This is not about being overly spiritual, but I strongly believe that every aspect of the dating process should be covered in prayer. Ask God for direction and discernment, and He will give it to you when you need it the most.
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