You need to become his top shelf prize. You need to make him want you and only you for the rest of life. How? A surprising answer rose to the top: Enter his world! It sounds obvious, right? But the fact is most women don’t. Sure, you might live with this man, or even be married with kids, but have you really entered into his world?
My relationship flourishes today because my girlfriend and I are a team. She actively participates when I wash the car, fix things around the house or even mow the lawn. Everyday mundane chores are fun. When she goes to the grocery, I’ll often show up with another cart and race her around the store with another cart and race her around the store with the goal of never stopping the cart. These things sound silly and stupid but they are the very fabric which keep a guy in love.
Participating in his passions doesn’t mean you suck up to him or even agree with everything he says or does. It means you need to enter his world on every level. Successful couples complement each other and support each other through life, without ever undermining the other. This means you accept with open arms his hobbies and passions.
The couples who beat the odds function as a team because they have chosen to share common interests. When you love someone, you need to love their interests as well as your own and vice versa. Those couples are the couples who, well, make most of us want to puke because they get along so well. They are inseparable. Much like dropping a toddler off at daycare for the first time, this team misses each other almost instantly. Each always has the other’s back, both in private and in public. A man needs this to fall in love and to feel validated - to feel like he is desirable, unique and very special, compared to all others.
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