Parents are the first role models for children and they’re the most influential people in their children’s whole life. However, many parents only teach their children what to eat, what to wear and what to learn but they ignore teaching their children the most important thing — what kind of people to be. In Yu Guangzhong’s view, several tips as below are given to teach children.
1. My kid, I hope you to be an idealist from the beginning to the end.
You can choose different careers in your life. You may be a farmer, an engineer, an actor or a vagrant but you should be an idealist. In your childhood time, we’ve told you story of heros, to teach you to learn to have pure quality in your life rather than hope you to be a hero. In your adolescent period, we’ve provide opportunites for you to be involved in poems, drawings and music, through which we hope to cultivate your noble interests in your mind. Those noble interests will help support your whole life so that you will never forget aroma of rose even in cold and bad winter days. Keep dreams in your mind will distinguish you out from others.
2. My kid, please don’t worry too much about your appearance.
Dreams will help purify your personality. Even the most attractive woman by be hated by others for her vulgarity. Your path to pursue your dreams will always not be smooth and you will suffer from toils and moils. But you should never give up. Your life won’t be colorful if you choose to live ordinary life. Don’t give up your dreams in exchange for little benefits and interests and never change your faith for chasing any trends.
Surface of the materialistic world is always complex and you need to learn how to refuse any seduction of vanity. You should learn to get used to be alone with yourself without appreciation from others and learn to be different from others.
3. My kid, I hope you are a steady person.
Life is always too short and there are to many things in virtual forms. You may fail in anything if you’re always confused by all those virtual things.
If you were a pretty girl, you may be very popular among men when you are young. Anything thing or people you get too easily will make you shallow and flippant.
If you were a very smart boy, you may be frivolous by supposing that you can make much achievement. Please remember that time and energy of a person is quite limited and we just need to do one thing as good as possible.
Please don’t look down upon ordinary people and don’t be opportunistic. Don’t attack things you can’t do well.
You’ll realize it is too hard to do one thing as good enough, but you shall never give up.
My kid, I hope you’re not coquetry. You are an independent person and no one can kill your independence except that you give in to the secular world. Many things are shiny in the secular world but of no value. So don’t always go with the flow as you may finally don’t know where to go.
No matter where the trend in this world changes, a person’s excellent quality such as integrity, braveness and indepence will never fade. I sincerely wish you have those excellent personal quality.
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