Relationship jealousy is a very complex thing. In daily life you may encounter some events that lead to jealousy and show you how to overcome your jealousy feelings. Those jealousy feelings could have arisen because of circumstances or simply because you have ideas set in your mind about what should happen, what did happen and why you feel this way. There are many examples of siblings feeling jealousy towards one another and even more of friendship being lost to jealousy. Jealousy of possessions or chances in life may be excuses for the individual. Instead of asking themselves why it's possible for someone to have something, they tend to ask themselves why they're not getting what they deserve. This will create jealousy and it's very unhealthy to picture life in this way.
You need to strengthen your character so that jealousy becomes a thing of the past rather than an everyday feeling you and people around you have to endure as a result of knowing each other. Jealousy is unhealthy and negative and it fuels all kinds of negative feelings within a relationship or even within yourself. You need to rid yourself of it because jealousy is eating away at your own sense of self-worth and your worth to others. If you position yourself in a jealous state, others may view that you're being "toxic" or too needy and that's not a good reflection on you at all. Then you'll gradually lose your friends and you won't be able to keep a lover because no one wants toxic relationships. No one wants someone whose needs are so great that they upset the balance of the relationship.
Jealousy seems to be a superfluous emotion and it's something that destroys. Sometimes we may doubt and ask why we feel this negative feeling towards people,even those who're important to us. Actually it's our own insecurities trigger jealousy and when you have tackled those insecurities, it tends not to come up anymore. You should gradually learn to relax, learn to be at peace with yourself and learn to love life. Only in this road can you help yourself to overcome such negativity.
You should remember that you're not the only person who has felt like this. But you're responsible for the things you feel.You need to examine your reasons and make yourself more secure in our relationships because if you continue to use jealousy as part of your life, you may lose more. All jealousy does is to make everyone around you negative. You should think of jealousy as being something that kills hope. It kills trust and it kills relationships stone dead. It won't help you to be a person people want to be with and it's certainly not offering you any protection from being hurt.
It's now high time that you remind yourself that fortune favors you. Blinded by jealousy, you'll not only find it impossible to see everything objectively and with clarity, but also have trouble realizing just how fortunate you are for being the person that you're right now. You are lucky because you're living a good life, enjoying great food, exploring other places and having fun with friends and family whenever you feel like it. Just take a look at others who're not fortunate enough to have what you possess right now, and you'll see this fact. Know that you possess so many things that other people would envy and be jealous of.
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