When you need to think about where to meet right girls you want to meet, a lot of men think they are only able to meet women in specific places, usually being inside of nightclubs. Men working or studying in academic places might think about academic relevant places such as library.
The problem is that this commonly limits their opportunities to meet women. But also makes them needier whenever they go out at night. Because they feel obligated to hook up with a girl. Otherwise, their night is useless, sad and fucked up. Which of course is stupid and puts them under huge amounts of pressure to perform.
The main reason to go out at night should be to have fun! In the process of having a great time, you may or not hook up with a girl. If you don't then you also don't die saying in your last breath, “I want ...”
No, because there is always another night and opportunity. One of the easiest ways to change this mentality is by realizing that attraction happens everywhere you go.
In other words, as soon as you enter into a coffee shop, restaurant, bar, mail, classroom; gym, or any other place where you can find women, just know there is always going to be at least one girl willing to meet you. And the more attractive you become the wider amount of higher quality women will be available.
This means you have the potential of meeting girls anywhere at any given time. Doesn't need to be only in a nightclub, or bar, or wherever you may think. It can be anywhere you go because attraction is always happening. It never stops, it’s restless!
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