People are most attracted to smiles and laughter. When you're having a good time, others notice and want to be with you. Do the things that make you happy...whether it's watching a funny movie or going to your favorite park to have lunch. Just do have fun and enjoy your life!
Love yourself and do what you love.
If you wear shoes that make your feet hurt so much it's hard for you to smile at the end of the day. Why are you making yourself miserable in shoes that the designer probably couldn't get his big toe in? If wearing less fashionable shoes would make you happy all day long, wear them. The person you want to attract will care more about the smile on your face than the shoes on your feet. When you accidentally spill coffee on your shirt, create some fantastic story about wind speed and space aliens that couldn't possibly be ture but makes you and others smile.
Try something new and have fun with it!
You could just support yourself in everything you do even if it's moving out of your comfort zone. Have you always wanted wo know how to dance waltz or do the tango but did't want anyone to see you fumble around the dance floow? You can just go to find a class across town or in a nearby town. Sign up. When you catch anybody watching you, just remember that it's because they want to be like you and dance. You're an example to them of what it means to have fun and enjoy life.
Don't retreat from doing the things you want to do. Don't let fear stop you. Don't let what could go wrong in your thoughts stop you. Take the risk and you might be pleasantly surprised. Each time you move out of your comfort zone and past your fear, and each time you have fun and express who you are, you're making progress forward and your vibration level raises.
Focus on the good things.
With your vibration level raising, your manifesting power expands and increases the Law of Attraction's ability to pull to you the love you want. See the positive in the person you want to manifest.Focus on the good things about the person you have your eyes on. Look for something to appreciate. Such a process could be tough if there were negative feelings between the two of you. Remember that anyone has the right to live his or her life exactly the way he or she chooses. Your only responsibility is how you are acting and what you're doing. You may have had some experiences with him that you wish were different. If you had bad experiences, keep in mind that the experiences are only experiences. They're not his true essence. One's true essence is one of goodness. We need experiences to grow, but our true essence always remains the same.
Be less critical.
Often we're critical of others because we're critical of ourselves. Whatever we accept as being negative in another, we accept for ourselves as well. The more you love and accept yourself, the less critical you will be of others. Criticism always can slowly push people and things out of our lives. Whether you're criticizing the person you want to manifest for not seeing how wonderful you're, you're criticizing yourself for not being good enough, or you're criticizing people or issues for being obstacles to you being with the one you love. Actually, you're just pushing your specific person away.
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