Sometimes when your woman feels tired from work or she feels a little low in mood, then she may be closed off to you. Under such case, she needs to feel your strength as she wants to know that you will be able to handle whatever she throws at you. Hereby, three main ways are suggested for men to open their woman.
1. Ask
You'd better initiate a conversation with her actively. Ask her to talk to you. For example, you can start by asking "How is your working day going on?"
"Can you tell me that kinds of things you're thinking about?"
"Are you OK?" You seems to be thinking about something for quite a long time.
Your inquiry to her shows your notice and your attention to her.Even though she might be not willing to respond to you with a complete sentence, still she certainly will realize that you're demonstrating that you recognize and care about waht is happening with her.
But make sure your tone in asking her shall be out of a calm and genuine interest rather than any negative sense. Because if she senses any of your frustrations with her, she may shut down even further as she may mistakenly consider your frustration as anger.Your tone shall be mixed with compassion,love,tenderness,concern or patience and you shall learn to have a balance.
2. Listen
A great lover is certainly a great listener. You should patiently listen and understand her with compassion and love before you provide solutions for her problems. By listening and understanding her with enough patience and time, you then can try to help her minimize her difficult situation and give her more comfort.In the listening process, you should dig deeply and give responses to her as she desires. As women are always of fullness in expressing their emotions.A great listener is always good at respecting her fullfilled emotions.
3. Love
In the asking and listening process, if you've found that your partner is feeling unloved, the antidode to her is to express your love to her. It's very common if she is just trying to resist your initial attempts to reconnect. You should be aware that this is merely the feminine's energetic resistance. It isn't that she's trying to make sure you know you messed up but that she wants to make sure you are still loving her. She wants to know how confirmed you are to push through her resistance.
You shall show your love by intimate guestures such as staring deeply into her eyes, holding her tightly against your body and kissing her like you mean it. Just be patient and determined with her opening up.
In terms of love, it's quite beneficial to promote your mutual intimacy by your proactiveness in awareness of her emotions at anytime she is in a low mood. You can strenghen your love to her by saying loving words such as "I hope you know that I will always be with you." or "I want you to always feel like you're safe with me. You don't ever have to hold back with me as I really want transparancy between us."
Women are usually emotional driven creatures. Accompany and love are the best antidote for any frustrations or bad mood they are in. Your initial conversations with them, patient listening to them and affectionate love towards them will certainly open your woman up and strengthen your mutual relationship to a upper high quality level.
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