Sometimes, even if your intentions are in line and you're expressing yourself openly, people won't always necessarily perceive you correctly. Communication is always up for interpretation; therefore, there’s always going to be a chance that you'll be misunderstood or people might make incorrect judgments about you. There's also a good chance that you aren’t expressing yourself clearly or effectively.
For instance, you may ask a girl out for coffee. But perhaps she's inexperienced or comes from a conservative background, and so what is a clear statement of interest from you, appears to her as just an invitation for friendship.
Or maybe you compliment a woman on her dress. But for whatever reason, your tonality, and facial expression aren’t clear and she thinks you’re being sarcastic. Maybe she’s insecure and very touchy about: men complimenting her, so she responds negatively.
In the long run,misunderstandings and miscommunications are unavoidable. No matter how clear and how charming you are there are always going to be women who misinterpret what you say to them as well as your intentions. This is a fact of life and something you have to get used to.
But what we can control is how efficiently and openly we communicate by learning clear and effective communication skills. The better our communication skills, the more clearly we can express ourselves and show sexual interest. The more clearly we express ourselves and show sexual interest, the more likely well be able to connect with women in a sexual and emotional way.
It’s sad but true. There are often situations where a woman will be sexually interested in a man, but their failure to communicate their intentions to one another clearly will derail the entire interaction. There’s no excuse to let this happen.
And as with all of the Three Fundamentals, you’ll find that clear communication will enhance other areas of your life — your professional relationships, your family relationships, your friendships, your networking abilities — just as much as it enhances your romantic relationships and your ability to meet and attract women.
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