Time always passes by and one thing which is inevitable in life is change. Change is always good when you’re not in a very good state. When you feel too much pressure in your career life, you need change. When you feel that your life is in a mess, you need change. When your health condition is deteriorating, you need make a change. Actually many people know that change is always good for us. But the real problem is that most people are always afraid of change. Why? Because making changes means that you shall take some risks and even some loss. However, most people are just afraid of taking risks and accepting any losses in their life.
Change is easy when you’ve already realized that you’re not willing to change because that you’re afraid of taking risks and accepting loss in life. As long as you realize what you’re afarid of, you will be more brave to confront with the things you’re afraid of or things you’re not willing to lose. Every time I make a decision to do something new to make a change, I’ve already been clear of what I am afraid of losing and I will just try my best to carry out my plans to follow that decision. Also I will always prepare myself to accept the final result of my actions — whether I will lose more or win more.
After you’re been aware of what hides behind your fear of making changes, a little courage is what you really need because it is courage that drive to step forward to make a change. It is your courage to be enough independent that drive you to determin to further your education abroad. It is your courage to love and be loved with responsibilities that drive you to step into marriage. It it your courage that you’re willing to sacrifice some of your time and love that make you determine to have babies and become parents. It is your courage that drive to put more efforts and persistance in your career and finnally win you a good position with high salary.
Indeed, change means risks and loss and even much bitterness in your life, but you can meanwhile gain confidence, experience and growth step by step. A toddler is even bold enough to step his feet out to learn to walk and finally he can smile as he walk. What are you waiting for when you’ve alreading thinking about make some proper changes reasonably?
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