Three key ideas on neediness are given in this article. As you learn those ideas, you’ll gradually know more about it and try to reflect yourself to check neediness level of yourself.
1. Neediness is the single most unattractive trait. You can look like Brad Pit, but is she gets so much as a whiff of neediness, her attraction will die.
2. It’s all about what your behavior subcommunicates. Neediness isn’t always obvious. Us guys typically associate neediness with crazy behaviors, such as secretly checking her phone. But in reality, doing unnecessary favors, getting too invested too early, or feeling like you need to prove yourself are all just as indicative of neediness.
3. The less fucks you give, the more fucks you get. Women are biologically hardwired to be instinctively attracted to mentally strong, confident, masculine, dominant men. These kinds of guys aren’t needy and have nothing to prove. And so when your behavior sub-communicates neediness — giving too much of a fuck — her legs tighten and her attraction wanes.
If you want to unlock her legs, eliminate all neediness. Not just the crazy stuff — I’m confident you’re not like that. It’s the small things. The subtle sub-communications. Turn the tables by shifting your mindset from “I hope she likes me” to “Let’s find out if I like her.”
Try impress her and she’ll be less interested.
Be less invested and she’ll try to impress you.
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