Love is very magic as love between people can produce strong emotions and energy. Be aware that when you practice magic,you have to take responsibility for what you want and what you do. You should be aware that within love, what you wish to others will come back to you even stronger than what you have sent before. And in love magic, only positive action will attain positive outcome! Therefore, love is a kind of great expression among a relationship and will exert great power or even miracles. Hereby in this passage, different love rituals are presented for readers to refer to manage their relationship.
Cuddle time - Dennis & Lily
Dennis and Lily loved cuddling in bed together. Several years into their relationship they ended up with different work schedules and they had less cuddle time than they used to. Although they didn't fight or have any other major problems, both Lily and Dennis felt a void in their relationship.They both would say: "We definitely still love each other but we wish we had more time to quietly cuddle."
Tied to the phone - Jessica & Leo
Jessica always had her phone on her. She would be texting and checking her phone regularly, including during conversations with her busband Leo. Leo would begin a conversation, and within a minute or two, Jessica would be busy on her phone texting someone or scrolling through social media posts. They would share with each other:
"Jessica,I feel like that phone is more important to you than I am - When I'm trying to have conversation with you, and you're playing with your phone."
"Leo, I'm sorry but this theme of cats is so funny! Leo!"
Secret: love rituals are a great way to pursue your partner and connect romantically.
We aren't talking about magic rituals but just a series of intentional actions that are taken to pursue your partner romantically and remind them of your love. These are typically done as part of a regular routine (although they can be done spontaneously as well),and help to build a sense of assuredness.
Some of the common love rituals that we perform are sending birthday cards, buying presents for holidays or sending roses for Valentine's Day. But there are many other opportunities to create new love rituals. Think of the things your partner likes to do. What do they enjoy? What makes them happy? Answering these questions will help establish what love rituals may be right for your relationship but here are some further ideas:
*Watching your favorite TV show on a regular basis while curled up next to each other on the couch.
*Spend a weekend afternoon playing board games together.
*Leave a note in the luggage of your spouse every time he or she has to travel.
*Say "I love you" as the last words to your partner every night.
*Schedule a regular couple's massage together either giving each other the massage or buying one from a local spa.
*Set a timer on your phone to remind yourself to text your spouse and tell them something that you appreciate about them.
*Set your alarm for five to fifteen minutes before you normally wake up so you have extra time to cuddle together in bed.
*Even though you live together,send your spouse a card or post card in the mail with some love notes.
*Take a weekly walk together.
*Return to a place that is special for the two of you: a place of engagement,the place you met,your first date,etc.
*Give your spouse one reason a day why you are grateful for him/her.
Rituals can have a negative connotation, and perhaps rightly so. When the series of actions become meaningless and repetitive, it doesn't carry any value. Sending love notes or taking weekly walks may seem like a great way to express love. But if the rest of your relationship is in shambles, the love ritual may seem hollow. Make sure to balance love rituals with the other aspects of your relationship.
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