Online dating, singles events, and matchmaking services like speed dating may prove successful and enjoyable for some people, but for many they lack spontaneity and often feel more like high-pressure job interviews than fun social occasions. And whatever dating experts might tell you, there is a big difference between finding the right career and finding lasting love. What’s your priority in online dating? Do you always make a list in your life and also in this aspect? Do you enjoy anything from it?
Think of your time as a single person as a great opportunity to meet new people, expand your social circle, and participate in new events. Instead of scouring dating sites or hanging out in pick-up bars, find and participate in activities that interest you. Make your focus having fun, whatever that means to you. You don’t have to be the life of the party or be endlessly cracking jokes to have fun. But by pursuing activities you enjoy and by putting yourself in a new environment, it's likely you’ll meet new people who share similar interests and values. By focusing on simply having fun, even if you don't meet that special someone, you will still have enjoyed yourself and maybe forged new friendships as well.
Here are some tips to find fun activities and like-minded people:
•Volunteer for a favorite charity, animal shelter, or political campaign. Or even try a volunteer vacation (for details see Resources section below).
•Take an extension class at a local college or university.
•Sign up for dance classes, cooking classes, or art classes.
•Join a running club, hiking group, cycling group, or sports team.
•Join a theater group, film group, or attend a panel discussion at a museum.
•Find a local book group or photography club.
•Attend local food and wine casting events or art gallery openings.
•Be creative: Write a list of activities available in your area and, with your eyes closed, randomly •put a pin in one, even if itfs something you would never normally consider. How about pole dancing, origami, or lawn bowling? Getting out of your comfort zone can be rewarding in itself.
What makes you enjoyable in online dating? If not, please refer to advices as above to find something funny you can enjoy and make your life more interesting. If so, please continue to your fantastic indulgency in it and have mroe fun.
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