For a woman, if she invests in a man in several most important days in her life, then she may beg her man not to leave in the remained decades. However, if you invested in yourself, you will win your true love relatively smooth. Love is a kind of luxury joy based on a certain amount of material. Women need to follow a truth: you will attract good men only when you’re in a best state.
For any women married or single, money, car or houses can only bring her a certain part of security. From the long term, safety of a woman is forever her own self establishments and acievements, which embody in her value to others and the society. Moreover, she need to know who she is, what she cand do and what’s the meaning in life.
Nowadays, more and more women are striving for earning money. This phenomena may be caused by lacking of enough security feeling for women. In the past, I considered that security feeling should be expressed through a promise, a pair of tightly holding hands and some warm words. Now I feel that security feeling comes from warm and bright sunshine, green light in a crossroad where thousands of people gather everyday. Keys and wallets in the bag when you go outside and full power in your mobile phone. Every woman wish to find a especially masculine man while they often tend to find themselve turn to be a little masculine.
Only when you’re independent enough and have ever visited many places and new people can you really achieve the sense of happiness in marriage. Only when you don’t care about value of your lover, can you really learn to love him in a better way.
Women, don’t live like a tabacco which may be ignited by others when they’re free but be thrown away when they don’t want! You need to be mature enough to be warm and tolerate to others, to be generous to yourself. You don’t envy others for their beautiful appearance and progress in career. And you don’t have pity or sadness about yourself. Just try to cultivate yourself to be in a better state.
The best way to love a person is to manage yourself well, to provide your partner a high quality lover. It isn’t because you try best to love the other that make him love you as his best. There is some sense of reality in love: only when you have enough value can what you contribute be valued by others.
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