You could remember how the relationship felt when it was new. You extremely adored each other. You could talk and discuss just about anything. You would frequently go out together and you would do many fun and enjoyable activities together, you used to hold hands and do cheesy things. You used to call each other a lot or send loving messages. You said kind words and shared a few laughs everyday. You gave romantic things such as a loving messages, flowers, gifts, poems, and even letters. But do you know the reasons why love fades?...
Incompatibility
When the relationship is still new, we tend to project something to our partners. We tend to be on our best behavior. However, as we move deeper into the relationship, and spend more time with our partners, we discover that we may not be compatible. You may discover that your values and priorities are not aligned, this is often the reason why love fades.
Taking Each Other For Granted
This is one of the most common reasons why relationships fade. Partners or spouses often take each other for granted. They no longer check on each other and they no longer pay attention to each other's needs.
Jealousy Or Betrayal
This one is huge, jealousy is sometimes a simple sign that your partner loves you. However, chronic jealousy can be overwhelming and intoxicating. When there is betrayal or jealousy in the relationship, there is no trust; and, trust is one of the most important ingredients in any successful relationship.
Sex Has Become A Routine
When the relationship is still new, you make love often and touch each other more frequently. After years of being together, sex can become a routine, more of a chore. Gone are the days of hot, passionate sex that helps you channel your creative orgasmic energy as a powerful fuel for your health, vitality, energy, and creativity. You no longer explore and passionately touch each others body. Although sex is not the most important component of a relationship, it is still one of the major keys.
Just Plain Bored
When you are with your partner for a very long time, you routinely choose security over passion and excitement. Everything becomes a routine and everything is planned, your relationship lacks spontaneity and passion-Planning is good; in fact, if you want to stay together for a very long time, it is best to plan ahead. However, if everything in the relationship is planned and calculated; you will eventually become bored.
It is not a secret that staying in love is much harder than falling in love. Love, as they often say, is a choice. And so if you think that your relationship can be saved and it is still worth saving, it is time to act now before it is too late. The good news is that you can still rekindle that good old fire and relationship spark. You can still ignite that fading passion and fall in love again. After all, marriage or partnership according to experts is falling in love with the same person many times.
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