Have you ever been rebellious sometimes or for a period of time? When you confront with any hardships, will you complain about some people or something around you? If you ever do, have you considered whether you are eligible to do so? Here Ann’s story of being rebellious and Tong’s story of striving hard beside a touble leader are shared.
Ann was a college student going to be gratuated the next year. Her story is worth sharing. Her major in her college time was choosen by her parents rather than by herself. As she didn’t like it she just became rebellious to show how she hated her major and to estimate her parents the bad results they chose major for her. In her college time, she spent most of her time escaping most classes and playing computer games instead. She didn’t even share her time to make new friends or participate in campus activities or clubs, nor finding a boyfriend. However, when she spent time in this way until her third year in college life, she found most of her classmates were busy preparing for their own goals: striving hard for postgraduate examination, applying for further education abroad or seeking good jobs. Seeing her poor mark performance in her previous years, she began to be extremely anxious and came to seek for help from psychology teachers.
Contrary to Ann, Tong’s story is totally different. She was deligient and very tolerant. She performed well in her study during her college time and was lucky to get an assistant position of a general manager upon the time she graduated. As an office lady at the beginning of her career, what’s made her anxious was that the female manager she assisted in her daily work was very pickly and always unstable in her personality and mood, which made Tong’s work very tough sometimes. She did complain about it in front of her friends in gathering time. Some of her friends even advised her to change for a new job instead of tolerating too much at that assistant position. However, she just considered it as usual and held the belief that anyone should start from a tiny position and tolerate much toils and moils before their achieving a big leap. Tong had learned professional expertise silently for several years and practiced her personal style in conducting her daily work assignments. She was even luckier to be promoted as a manager in the marketing department in the listing company.
We may sometimes behave like Ann in our rebelious growing period. I did so sometimes in my college life. Compared with Tong, Ann seems to be immature and not indepentant at all. We’re living in this world as an individual first and we are destined to be seperated with our parents and build a life of our own. Any harm due to rebelliousness will finally harm ourselves. The harder we struggle, the less we will complain about people around us because we will finally find us ineligible to do so.
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