For old couples, do you feel tire of getting along with your partner after getting married for several years or even decades. If you do, you may don’t understand how to manage your intimate relationship. Here are several tips for you to increase intimacy even after getting married for many years. You can try all or some of them to refresh your marriage.
Tip 1： Have a Weekly Date Night
That's something you used to do as a dating or engaged couple. Sometimes that's one of those things that dies in marriage. But you don’t have to allow that to happen. Make sure you get out of the house or do something fun together at least once a week, just the two of you. No kids.
Tip 2： Plan Together
You probably have to do this constantly anyway, but I know couples who get confused a lot because they don't keep up with each others schedules. Time is precious. Try to get the most out of it and be on the same page.
Tip 3: Shower Together
Just an erotic, romantic moment together... other than having actual sex, can be showering together. I don't think I have to expand on that a lot, but if you do it every other day, or a few times per week, it can greatly enhance your relationship.
Tip 4： Help Others Together
If you team up and help out others in need, you will feel a satisfaction together that goes beyond a simple “good time.” You will feel useful, like you contributed and sacrificed for the well-being of others, and you may even get an elaborate “hank you” in return. My wife and I, for example, help out in the community sometimes, do some service projects on occasion, and made a 2 months trip to Costa Rica to help less fortunate teenagers get out of the poverty cycle. We look back on those experiences with joy.
Tip 5: Go On Vacations Together
This can create a lot of happy memories. Make sure you take pictures. I traveled with my wife to different parts of Europe, Latin America, and the USA. I can hardly wait for our next adventure.
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