There are 11 different erotic things to say to your partner during orgasm as follows:
1.Come in my mouth. I promise not to spill a drop.
This conveys farther images of the naughty, but good girl, who doesn’t waste a thing, showing how much she likes the particular act, that she enjoys how you taste; and desires to have the power rush that comes from Snaking someone else come as a result of oral sex.
2.Come really hard for me.
3. Come on that cock.
This command is enough to send just about anyone straight over the edge. It has the flavor of one person being dominant over the other, by virtue of commanding the other person to a particular action, but the carnality of it is what serves to push it straight over the edge. This is also something that is typically said right before the other party is about to come, and with the right inflection and commanding tone in the voice it can serve to have you and your partner coming at the exact same time and increasing the closeness felt, and the depth of the intensity that is felt.
4. Keep coming hard for me.
5. Come on my tits.
This provides a visual image to go along with the description, coming unbidden to mind immediately upon utterance, and gives your partner a feeling of power by marking you, even though you were the one to tell them what to do.
6.Want you to come fill over me.
7. You want to come for me, don't you?
8. You're going to come so hard you're going to wet the bed.
9. Where do you want me to come?
This not only asks permission, requests a command, It also provides many different visuals in addition to let your partner know that you are close to reach it pinnacle. It also shows a potential shift back to the male relationship dynamics, from the different dynamics present during the act itself.
10.Come inside of me.
Regardless of the type of protection used or not used, is the connotations attached to it that show that you are willing to remain with that person, no matter what, come what may, and you want both of you to experience that utmost completeness that is felt when one person comes while still inside of another.
11. Come for me.
This three word command is usually enough to send just about anyone straight over the edge, and is usually used when the other partner is close to coming so that both may do so at the same time. It shows which partner is the dominant party, and serves to provide a heightened anticipation and excitement for both patties.
Final Thoughts
I hope that these different examples have provided more than an ample amount of ways to get you started, not just with thinking about the topic, but imagining how this could best be mixed in to your lives. These are by no means the only different things that you can say; nor are they perhaps the phrasing that you personally would use, or even the spelling you would normally use, but they should have served as a means and a way to not only get you started thinking about the different things that you want to say, or the different things you want to hear. You may even show this particular article to your partner and use it as a means of bringing up the subject to them! By looking at the reasons behind why certain things work, you should be able to go through and figure out more about the type of person you are in bed, and what you like, which will not only serve to increase your pleasure, but increase your partner's pleasure as well.
Each and every person is going to have a different form of dirty talk. Some people prefer the tamer variations on different things that they can say, while other prefer the vulgar; the more vulgar the better; the more coarse the better. Regardless of whether you prefer tame, or if it is the hardcore dirty talk that really rings your bell, either version, either way, is completely okay and perfectly natural. There is no good or bad way to talk dirty to your partner. The important thing is that it is natural for you to say, that you do not get embarrassed as a | result of the things that you say, and that you work to incorporate the phrases and methods that you want to use into your life in the way that works best for you. Some people may not choose to take it to text messages I or to emails, while others will keep it only in text and never utter a word out loud, but whatever the method used, whatever the medium used, and whatever the intensity used, it is all completely acceptable.
Sex is a taboo subject In our society; it is used to sell everything, but it is never discussed openly, and because of that, many different people are concerned with, or unsure of, how to get started bringing dirty talk into their sex lives. As long as you are comfortable with the level you use, the words you use, and enjoy how it makes you feel, then you are doing it right. What may flat out do it for one person may be completely cheesy and ridiculous to another, and that's okay too. Every different person has different kinks, quirks, and preferences in regards to their sexuality , and the sexuality of their partners, as long as you are all satisfied and have a happy and healthy sex life (and you remember not to send naughty or not safe for work emails to your partner company email address) you should be more than set. We wish you the best of luck in spicing up your life and hope that this has been helpful and inform for you.
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