As a woman, you have powers: your mind, your legs, your butt, your breast and of course your sex. But you have a glaring weakness - your emotions! It's like you have massive armor covering your body with one glaring target on your back and a bright red sign which implies men to "shoot here if you want to control me."
The wet kitten sees the target here and he always know how to take aim and abuse your emotions. He even knows how to get exactly what he wants out of you. Maybe it's sex or it's money, or maybe he wants to mooch off of you for three months until he can find someone new. Thereafter, if he doesn't want to continue the relationship, he will turn everything upside down and blame you. However, on the contrary, the woman will wonder what she did wrong and whether she can do things better if only she can get him back. Wet kittens know hot to take advantage of your emotions and they don't even know what they're doing. They just stumble over it. Therefore, you need to gain control over your emotions when it comes to men. When in doubt, you should act like a guy. Excessive emotions don't work with men. It only gets you nowhere at best and can ruin your whole relationship in the worst case. Don't make your emotions disappear. It's impossible. You should just hid your emotions from him, count to ten, walk away or call your best girlfriend.
Your emotions help you in many ways and you need them to be a great mother and to be all in when it comes to love. Keep in mind that commitment issues will almost never be a problem if you find the right guy. Any men with this quality shall be admired.
Women's emotions can control their actions and this is not good when it comes to men. If a man is abusive, your emotions may say "I need to try harder" or "it's my fault because I wasn't there for him when he needed me." The best way to deal with high emotions is try your best to prove the emotions to yourself. When you feel that you're getting emotional with a guy you need to do this:
•Recognize the high emotions (obviously).
•Stop and ask yourself, "what would he do?" or "what is he about to do?"
•Then, do it for him first!
Walk away and stop talking to him just like he is about to stop talking to you. Turn away just like he is about to do to you. Walk out of the house. Call your friends. Go join your friends and this is your mind at work but not your emotions. It sounds counter-productive, but to the contrary, it's very effective.
•Because you're communicating with him just like he communicates with his friends, so he understands and responds to this.
•Your lack of communication will shock him because he is expecting you to be emotional.
•He realizes something is really wrong and now he wants to communicate with you!
When in doubt, act like a guy!
Care less
Men never care about minor things - women do. Women analyze every little scrap of emotion men let out. Why? Because men don't let out much, so when they do, it's of great importance to you. Act like a guy. Let out very little emotion yourself as if you're care less. He will suddenly want you more because you just became mysterious to him. When you act like an emotional woman, he becomes immune to all your emotions and he stops listening.
Don't show him you're emotionally involved
As men always hide their emotions, so you need to do the same. You should act like a guy. Never say "I love you" first. Let him. Never say, "we need to talk." Let him. His emotions are there and they just don't appear until he knows you're the woman for him. Let him find out without you trying to advance the relationship. This way really works and it's magical!
Leave him if he treats you badly.
A guy will not put up with being mistreated. If you have an affair, he will leave you. If you treat him like dirt, he will leave you. You can learn from him! Act like a guy. If his actions and your intuition say leave him - leave him! Women take all kinds of crap. Emotional and even physical abuse takes place and they come back for more.
Don't try to fix him.
Men don't try to fix women. They dump them and try to find a woman of higher quality. You can act like a guy. When you realize this man is broken, which should be on the first date - dump him! You shold learn to attract lions who're not broken. Lions are quality guys who have confidence and are seeking you if you're of high quality.
Show off and buy "man" toys
Men buy fast cars, tough dogs and expensive sunglasses because it makes them feel confident, worthy and attracts women. You can learn from them. Act like a guy. Put on your sun-glasses and have your pit-bull ride shotgun! You just watch how many men will come to your side.
If you have a broken heart, your pain is going to be there and your emotions are going to have you screaming and crying. You should be more clear about the power you can wield if you choose not to let your emotions take over your actions.
When in doubt, just act like a guy, you'll certainly see how the pendulum swing. It will be amazing!
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