To continue discussing about the three fundamentals (lifestyle,courage and communication) mentioned earlier,this passage is going to analyze men's natual advantages and disadvantages of the three fundamentals. You're very likely to be pretty strong in one or more of the three fundamentals and weak in one or more of them. Where your strengths and weaknesses lie will determine not only the quantity of women you've acquainted with, but also the types of outcomes you achieve. The examples as below explain this idea very clearly.
A man with an amazing lifestyle but poor action and poor communication might be surrounded by beautiful and interesting women but never be with them. This is just why rich or goodlooking men are still single and frustrated. They may have money, connections, power and meet beautiful women regularly but they hardly achieve any good results with those high quality women.
A man without any fear or anxiety with women will be able to approach and ask out many women but his effort-to-reward ratio will be poor and the quality of women will be worse. That's why many men like loafing around always go out 5-6 nights per week, approaching dozens of women but failing with almost all of them.
A man with very good communication skills but a lot of fear and a poor lifestyle will rarely meet or attract beautiful women. But the few times he does, he will capitalize on his few opportunities. Most so-called "normal" guys are like this. They rarely see opportunities. But when they come along, they take them and do well. But it seems that they never feel like they're in control of their love lives. They're always waiting for the next woman who's interested to come around. Sometimes they end up waiting quite a while.
Men always implement various kinds of dating advice or they try their best to reflect and improve themselves, but hardly gain any actual change in results. The three fundamentals explain and support this idea very forcefully. If your weakness is that you aren't able to communicate coherently or empathize with what other people are expressing, then being encouraged to approach as many as 300 women is absolutely a disater for them.
If you've broken up, living with your parents and have no job, then being encouraged to spend all of your time and money out in nightclubs is only going to win you lots of meaningless sex with mediocre drunk girls who have no better options. If you're quite afraid to say anything to a woman you find attractive, then the best conversations tricks, teasing and flirting lines or even openers are not going to help you at all.
The three fundamentals are interdependent and they feed off one another. Therefore, if a man's biggest problem is an inability to communicate well, then meeting 100 new women won't directly benefit you, but the fact that you're talking to 100 new people will indirectly help your issue. Meanwhile, being able to coomunicate effectively will help guys with extreme levels of anxiety in their development because the few times they make a move on women, they will usually do it in a smooth and socially-attuned way.
Most men will have one or two main weaknesses and probably one natural strength and it's suggested you find out that which one is your weakness and which one is your strength. And then you need to work on your weakness. This will be the quickest route to improve your love life and sex life.
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