• How to Create Endless Topics

    In every topic of conversation, there are countless opportunities to jump off onto other topics — there are countless word associations to be made.For instance, let’s assume you’re talking to a woman and she says, “I never liked that restaurant. I went there on my birthday last year, and I don’t remember anything past midnight. I woke up on my friend’s kitchen floor.”This is lo
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  • Questions versus Statements, Which Is Better?

    Creating threads of conversation through statement is far more powerful than questions. This is because it assumes rapport and instantly makes conversations more personally.For instance, if you’ve been talking to a woman at a bar for a few minutes, saying, “I love olives in my drink. When I was a kid used to eat them straight out of the jar,” is far more interesting than, “Do you l
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  • Avoid Women Treating Strangers, Service Personnel & People of Lower Social Status like Garbage

    This may seem like common sense, but it deserves to be mentioned just in case. Guys who are looking for a great girl to hopefully cultivate a serious relationship with will RUN at the slightest sign of meaness in a woman. If a woman has the habit of treating those of lesser station than herself like garbage, the only kinds of men she’ll attract will be guys who either treat others the
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  • Do You Always Use Effective Language in Conversations?

    Using effective language is the easiest “quick fix” that you can apply to your communication skills. Using effective language means saying what you mean with the fewest words possible while still maintaining your meaning and intent.This is where being a good writer can actually help you become a good communicator. If you're saying something in four sentences that could be said in
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  • Avoid keeping company with licentious and unabashedly obnoxious women

    This one may seem strange, but it does have a great effect on what men think about you as a person and therefore, the future (or lack thereof)they might see with you. The truth is, if you often find that the men you date just don’t seem to ‘get’ your friends and they’re often unwilling or uninterested in getting to know them a bit better, you may have a female friend problem on you
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  • How Do You Think of First Impressions?

    First impressions are crucial. Studies show that we base the majority of our perception of people on the first few minutes we spend with them. This initial perception can extend and influence our relationship to the person for weeks or even months.If you look at all of the women you’ve dated seriously, just about all of them ,it felt "on” within the first few minutes of the intera
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  • Have You Ever Built or Broken Habits?

    Your communication skills are a series of overlapping habits. You have habits that influence when and how you make eye contact with people, how you speak, your voice inflections, what kinds of questions you ask, whether you lead the conversation or follow, whether you’re curious about others or self-centered, how often you smile, look away or laugh. The list goes on and on.If you have tr
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  • How Much Do Your Self-awareness and Vulnerability Contribute to Emotional Connection?

    Your ability to connect with a woman emotionally is proportional to how self-aware you are of your own emotional processes and motivations.As described before, self-awareness and vulnerability will cause you to behave in a less needy manner, they give her the chance to know the “real you,” to trust you, and to open her own emotions up to you.Ultimately, this is what most women want. If y
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  • Emotional Connection Is Related to Feelings

    The most important rule of emotional connection is to related to feelings, not facts. Seduction is about feelings, not facts. This is why you can often meet a woman who shares a lot in common with you — same hometown, same occupation, same interests, lives on the same street — and have no connection or chemistry whatsoever. But then you can meet a women who has lived an entirely differ
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  • Proper Communication Do Matters to Creepiness as A Kind of Vulnerability

    The number one fear deferring men from openly expressing their sexual desires towards women is a fear of being perceived as “creepy”.Before we jump into what creepiness is exactly, and what women mean when they complain about it, I need to give the same type of painful-truth serum I gave for rejection:There’s no such thing as a man who is adored by women who isn’t also creepy some
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